Thick Skin

I had a conversation with someone last year who relayed a story of how they enjoyed making me cry. According to this person, whenever they felt like they needed to make themselves feel better  they would come to my cubicle and tell me something I […]

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Note To Self

Who has an adulting manual? A book that has answers to all adulting questions because  I have a few: How do you deal with a shady co-worker? How do I let my ego know that not all fights are worth partaking in? How can you […]

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What You Think You Deserve

Do you deserve to get that promotion? Do you deserve to  be financially independent? Do you deserve to be your ideal weight? Do you deserve to be happy? Do you deserve to have a loving, Caring and supportive partner? Do you deserve to get that […]

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Behind The Curtain

It was tradition at the High school I attended for all grade 8 students to be part of the Newcomers Concert. It was more like a variety/talent show. I remember the group I was in had to do a dance by Mary Mary – Shackles. […]

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What Kept Me Going

This was a question my psychologist asked me in my last session after I related the emotional space I was in 2012-2014.  Those years were trying years, family was far and school was draining. I think if I ever wanted to give up that was […]

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The Art of Doing Nothing

I grew up in a home where doing nothing was a sign of laziness. Not doing anything at all was unacceptable to a point that one had to wake up as early as 6 am during the weekend even if you had nothing to do. […]

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Nothing Like Death To…

Nothing Like Death To Pull you back into the now Evoke memories that were forgotten Make space in your heart for immense pain Remind you of things you are going to regret Make you wish you held on to the last hour before it came […]

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Chasing Happiness

I will be happy when I finish this degree I will be happy when I complete my Honors degree I will be happy when I complete my Master’s degree I will be happy when I get my first job I will be happy when I […]

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