Why I Still Live At Home

It is very common  to find cousins/nephews/nieces and godchildren all living under one roof being raised as siblings in African homes. I grew up with a brother who I only learned later was actually my uncle who came to live with us when he was about 4/5. […]


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Big Girl Panties

I have always been that person who was afraid to confront anyone, if someone treated me unfairly instead of speaking up I would distance myself from the person and limit our interactions. And boy has it worked for me, that meant I never had to […]


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I Would Like To

At this point in time this is what I want to do: Pack my bags head to the airport and take the first flight to anywhere Sit under a shaded tree and read a good book Lie on a hammock and meditate Sew a thick […]


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What Is Important

“And every day, the world will drag you by the hand, yelling, “This is important! And this is important! And this is important! You need to worry about this! And this! And this!” And each day, it’s up to you to yank your hand back, […]


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