Everybody Is Winging It

I have always been so hard on myself because as a perfectionist if I don’t complete a task perfectly I felt like I have let myself down. You can imagine how exhausting that can be because not everything will be perfect all the time and that […]

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Why I Still Live At Home

It is very common  to find cousins/nephews/nieces and godchildren all living under one roof being raised as siblings in African homes. I grew up with a brother who I only learned later was actually my uncle who came to live with us when he was about 4/5. […]

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Big Girl Panties

I have always been that person who was afraid to confront anyone, if someone treated me unfairly instead of speaking up I would distance myself from the person and limit our interactions. And boy has it worked for me, that meant I never had to […]

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