Who Is This For?

When you are young the only people you want to impress are your parents. As you get older you meet friends and they become more important and you might want to impress them instead.  That my friend is a sign of adulting in this world (unless […]


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Who Is It For?

When you are young the only people you want to impress are your parents. As you get older you meet friends and they become more important and you might want to impress them instead.  That my friend is a sign of adulting in this world (unless […]


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Why I Still Live At Home

It is very common  to find cousins/nephews/nieces and godchildren all living under one roof being raised as siblings in African homes. I grew up with a brother who I only learned later was actually my uncle who came to live with us when he was about 4/5. […]


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Big Girl Panties

I have always been that person who was afraid to confront anyone, if someone treated me unfairly instead of speaking up I would distance myself from the person and limit our interactions. And boy has it worked for me, that meant I never had to […]


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I Would Like To

At this point in time this is what I want to do: Pack my bags head to the airport and take the first flight to anywhere Sit under a shaded tree and read a good book Lie on a hammock and meditate Sew a thick […]


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I lost my phone today

Today is only Wednesday but so much has happened already. I had to face the truth about a situation last night that ended up with two broken hearts but it had to be done and I have been having the most vivid dreams that are […]


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Every Season

The past week has been quite chilly around here (Tsumeb, Namibia). It is winter in the Southern Hemisphere  but one just remembers the heat more than the cold weather. In school we were taught that there are 4 seasons: summer, winter, spring and autumn but […]


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