Onhwa – Eagle

Last year the sigother and I were on a trip to one of the national parks here in Namibia. While on the game drive I kept on asking him to translate the animal names into our native language. I then asked him what an eagle […]

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Thick Skin

I had a conversation with someone last year who relayed a story of how they enjoyed making me cry. According to this person, whenever they felt like they needed to make themselves feel better  they would come to my cubicle and tell me something I […]

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Note To Self

Who has an adulting manual? A book that has answers to all adulting questions because  I have a few: How do you deal with a shady co-worker? How do I let my ego know that not all fights are worth partaking in? How can you […]

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What You Think You Deserve

Do you deserve to get that promotion? Do you deserve to  be financially independent? Do you deserve to be your ideal weight? Do you deserve to be happy? Do you deserve to have a loving, Caring and supportive partner? Do you deserve to get that […]

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Behind The Curtain

It was tradition at the High school I attended for all grade 8 students to be part of the Newcomers Concert. It was more like a variety/talent show. I remember the group I was in had to do a dance by Mary Mary – Shackles. […]

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What Kept Me Going

This was a question my psychologist asked me in my last session after I related the emotional space I was in 2012-2014.  Those years were trying years, family was far and school was draining. I think if I ever wanted to give up that was […]

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